I know that Father’s Day is next Sunday, as I’ve been seeing advertisements for the “best” gifts that Dad will love. But have you ever thought about giving God, the Father, a Father’s Day gift? As the creator of all, there really isn’t anything He needs, yet it seems like a huge miss if we neglect to acknowledge God as our Heavenly Father. After all, without God, we wouldn’t exist.
Dads love a good barbeque and receiving tools and gadgets honor their chef talents. While Jesus did grill fish for the apostles, it’s impossible for us to give God barbeque-themed gifts for Father’s Day. While a barbeque is all about cooking with fire, the result is food ready to eat by others. Perhaps to honor God with a Father’s Day gift, we can volunteer to make food for a homeless shelter. One option could be to take a elderly person grocery shopping who doesn’t have the ability or means to do so. Another way is to donate a grocery bag to the food pantry. In assisting others with their meals, we can reflect the generosity of God in our lives, sustaining us in all our needs.
Socks are simple gifts, but they can be both practical and fun. While Jesus might appreciate socks if He continued here on earth, God the Father is pure spirit and has no need of socks. But others in our communities do have clothing needs. Perhaps we buy a new pair of socks to donate to a shelter or an organization that helps with the clothes for those who can’t afford to purchase them. We could also go through our closets to see what clothing we haven’t worn in awhile that is still in good condition and donate them as well. Whether we give from our surplus or purchase new for those in need, we are honoring the fatherly role model to provide the warmth and protection that clothes give us.
One gift fathers appreciate is their car washed. Here again, God does not have a car to wash, so how can we translate that option into a divine Father’s Day gift? Washing a car is not about spending money, but rather giving up our time and taking action. Volunteering our time at our parish or at diocese events could be optional ways to give God a similar gift. Maybe it’s asking if there is a particular project around the parish campus that needs someone to step up and offer their time and expertise. Time is a precious gift from God and when we donate it back to the Church, we are praising God through our efforts.
For some dads, a gag gift is the perfect gift. These gifts result in smiles and laughter. I do not have any idea of what type of gift that would make God laugh, however, if we bring laughter and smiles to others, that could be a gift God would like to see. Laughter does make the best medicine and visiting a nursing home, hospital, or even house-bound neighbors could brighten their day and ease their circumstances. When we take the time to see other people as individuals created and loved by God, we see a bit of the divine beauty within them. Visiting those who could use a friend allows us to be God’s hands, eyes, and smile to them.
As dads age, sometimes the most treasured gift is that of spending time with them. This is one gift we can give God. Spending time in an adoration chapel or even at home in prayer or reading scripture, we can spend time with God. We can open ourselves up and listen to Him. In the quiet calmness of our hearts we can welcome Him to dwell with us. We can thank Him for both the challenges and the blessings He has granted us thus far and trust that He will continue to provide in the future.
As we honor the fathers and the fatherly role models in our lives, let us not forget to honor God the Father. He has provided us the men in our lives that have reflected aspects of His heavenly love for us.