Merry Christmas! I realize that December 25 was last week, however, I don’t want Christmas to end just yet. And as a Catholic, I get to enjoy Christmas the whole season long!

A few days ago, I was watching a video blog on YouTube about different types of cruises. The woman said one of the many cruises she took was over Christmas, and while it was lovely, she was rather frustrated that Christmas music played the entire cruise, even after Christmas day itself. She indicated December 27 was her limit for playing the seasonal music until the following November. Ah! That’s the issue, I thought to myself. You start way too early! It’s no wonder you’re ready to move on, because you’ve started indulging in the holiday before preparing for it, so that when the actual time for celebration comes, you’re all celebrated out. This is why the liturgical calendar of the Catholic Church is so important. Like a mother, it knows that children want to skip straight to celebrating, so in its wisdom, we have the (almost) four weeks of Advent to prepare for Jesus. At Mass, we have songs that remind us to keep hope alive and that a Savior is coming, but is not quite here yet. It reminds us of the entire Old Testament, which saw generation after generation waiting for the Messiah. We can’t fully appreciate the gift God gives us in His Son unless we understand and know what it is like to be without Him and be waiting for Him.

We are still within the octave of Christmas, that is the liturgical celebration of eight days of Christmas as if it was Christmas itself. Traditionally, the timeframe for the Twelve days of Christmas was the time between Christmas and the feast of the Epiphany, which recalls the wise men visiting the Child Jesus. In a time before electric lights and artificial trees, decorations for the holiday were not displayed until Christmas eve, so that the season could be celebrated with the fresh greens. Oh, how I wish we had retained just a little of that sense of restraint! While I do spend time before Christmas baking and listening to Christmas music, I don’t fully engage in celebrating until the holiday is almost upon us. I don’t binge on Christmas movies too early in December but prefer to wait until the week of Christmas and after most of my preparations are completed. After putting in the time and energy to decorate, I want to enjoy the lights, the tree, and the nativity scene. Praying a rosary while gazing on the same infant Jesus in a manger that graced the under-the-tree stable my Dad built for it, is more than just nostalgia, but provides a real sense of connection and continuity of past, present, and future. 

The liturgical celebration of the Christmas season is from Christmas Eve though the feast of the Baptism of Jesus, usually the week following the Sunday solemnity of the Epiphany. While I’ll start to put my decorations away after the Epiphany, that’s to limit the exposure my cats have to them, lest they get too comfortable and begin to think they are toys to be played with. Until then, I want to immerse myself in the holiness of the season. The decorations are not meant to just be festive, but to be meaningful in regards to the season. After experiencing a time of expecting Jesus, we now receive the gift of a Savior. It’s a precious gift to treasure in our daily prayers as well as in our daily activities. We look at the special lights and remember the Light of the World who was born to save us from our sins. We look at the figures of Mary and Joseph kneeling before Jesus nestled in the manger’s hay and remember that God fulfills His promises far more spectacularly than we can ever imagine, but in His own time. Hearing songs like Joy to the World, O Come All Ye Faithful, and Silent Night stir our hearts to both rejoice and find comfort in a God who loves us so much, He became like us. 

While the secular world around us has rushed the season and is moving on to the next celebrations of the Superbowl, Valentine’s Day, and St. Patrick’s Day, let us linger a bit longer in this Christmas season, absorbing all the beauty and graces it can bestow.