We all have days that turn into a slog to get through and thus, it seems like the only hope is the promise of a new day tomorrow. The question is, do we offer these kinds of days up to God?

When I have a rough day, I know I’m not performing my best from any perspective: work, home-life, pet parent, and even to myself… not to mention spiritually. I usually have a number of things I want to accomplish during a day and when it turns out that everything is a struggle, I feel like I’m asking God for help more than I am offering up the struggles to Him. Perhaps because I can feel defeated during those times, I also feel disappointed in myself and I find that I project that sentiment as how God feels. Even though logic tells me that is not so, for God IS love and sees the bigger picture of my entire life. He does not focus on the momentary blip that we call a day. If a hard day was a cake, I would imagine it would be a sunken, half-baked one, with burned edges and missing ingredients; tasting so bad that even a dog would not eat it. How does one offer that up to God? 

I know I’m far from perfect, but on a good day, I can find so many things to be thankful to God for and gratitude seems to flow from my mouth for the simplest of things: the sun shining, Vera purring, the ability to help a coworker. I feel thankful when I vocalize these thoughts. Maybe I perceive a lack of similar intensity on bad days that makes me feel that my prayers for help, guidance, and direction are inadequate. The passage that comes to mind during these times is more about carrying the cross one is given on a daily basis (Matt 16:24) rather than God’s yoke being easy and light (Matt 11:28-30). Indeed, the language Jesus uses of a yoke is meant to convey that there are two animals pulling the proverbial cart. If we are one and He is the other, we may be taking more of the load than we should. I wonder if the reason why the weight of the yoke on these trial-filled days is because I’m trying to not only pull the cart by myself, but take it in a different direction than what God has intended. 

We are never alone, in whatever challenge we face, because God is always with us. He never left the Israelites even when they strayed from His commandments for generations. I think Paul summed it up best when in the letter to the Romans he said: “For I am sure that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present for things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Rom 8:38-39) While we should always strive to do our best, even the poorest work we perform can still be offered up to God. He knows how much we are capable of, and we need to leave all judgment to Him and try not to compete with ourselves.

No matter what our state in life, we will face challenging days. Perhaps in offering them to God as we experience them, as well as at the end of day, we can make ourselves more ready to spend eternity with God because we have shared the whole of our lives with Him.