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Vainglory

As I was recently listening to a Lenten reflection, one of the words used caught my ear and stuck in my head: vainglory. What a fascinatingly descriptive word! 

While I know I’ve heard the term before, it’s not used in regular parlance today. However, perhaps we should bring it back and use it, since its synonym is rather charged in a secular way. Pride, at least from a cultural perspective, is not a sin, but rather something to be flaunted, especially in regards to alternative values. Yet vainglory paints a picture of how our desires can lead us to sin. All glory should be given to God, as He made us with all the skills and talents we have. Even if we put hard work into accomplishing something, God still gets the glory, as we are a reflection of His creation. We can appreciate and celebrate our accomplishments, but need to practice humility in the praise we receive.

According to Merriam-Webster, the definition for vainglory is, “excessive or ostentatious pride especially in one’s achievements.” Reflecting on what it is doesn’t go deep enough, we also need to reflect on how much we have acted in such a way. It can be easy to deny that we behaved like that, but the sin of vainglory is not just an action, it’s also a driver of our actions. Are we doing things because we will be recognized for what we do or say? We could be doing many good deeds, but if we do them to impress others, or for them to be favorable to us, then we lose out on the grace we could receive in doing the kind acts for the sake of God and neighbor. 

A person who acts with vainglory, seeks honor and praise for themself. However, the drive for glory could be through many different methods: like money, power, or gossip. Perhaps one wants to be the person everyone at work goes to, because they can get the answer to any question. One may say that they’re just helping their fellow employees, but when folks praise their efforts, it’s hard not to make the praise become why one does it. Thus when we receive a compliment, we should immediately thank God ourselves and pass along the praise to Him.  

The stumbling block with vainglory is that it is tied to our hearts and our desires. But like any sin, in order to combat it, we first need to be aware of it. Perhaps we reflect daily or weekly on our actions, or maybe just one at a time, and ponder what prompted us to do or say whatever it is we’re reflecting on. If we can start to recognize when we act out of haste, so as to not to think about why we’re doing something, we can then determine if our intentions were for our own glory. This reflection doesn’t necessarily mean we stop, only that we ask God to lead us and guide us in determining if it is His will and to thank Him afterwards, especially if we have received compliments. 

As we journey through these last weeks of Lent, let us remember the humility Jesus showed in all events of His Passion, Death, and Resurrection. It is Jesus who is our Savior and all glory and praise go to Him, since we can only partake of heaven due His efforts. And He did it for, and through, Love for us, not for the glory we give Him. 

Shared sufferings

Who wants to suffer? Really. If someone asked you if you had a choice between suffering and not, would you choose to suffer? 

During Lent, Catholics are encouraged to practice praying, penance, and almsgiving, and through these, we are to make a sacrifice of ourselves. A sacrifice is to give up or lose something of value, which for me would indicate some sort of suffering. If the sacrifice was valuable, then to give it up would impose a pain or a hardship for at least a brief time. Yet sometimes our sacrifices are more for our own benefit. Since we get to choose what we sacrifice, we can mitigate the suffering it entails. The Church asks us to abstain from eating meat on Fridays, but do we instead use it as an opportunity to splurge on lobster, crab, or scallops instead? Do we wait until we account for all our bills for the month and then any leftover funds are used to give alms? Or do we pay attention to what we are purchasing and for superfluous items consider giving that amount to charity instead? Do we actively pray to forgive those who we find issues with, be it a family member, a coworker, or a politician in the news? 

This month the Magnificat devotional I use is profiling saints who received the stigmata for the saint of the day. Some saints are well known to have received it, like St. Francis of Assisi and Padre Pio of Pietrelcina. One that caught my attention was St. Rita of Cascia who received a wound of a thorn from the crown of thorns. She meditated upon and felt close to the sufferings of Jesus even before receiving this share in His sufferings. It makes me wonder if I’m a product of my generation where we seek comfort and convenience and avoid any type of suffering. I can’t imagine asking Jesus to participate in His sufferings. While I attempt to accept the sufferings that I encounter in my own life, I often buckle under the weight of it and ask God to relieve me of the burden. I get grumpy and impatient in my struggles, falling far short of the ideal these saints demonstrate.

In this season when we do focus much more on the Passion of Jesus, we may look with sympathy and appreciation that He suffered to be our Savior. Yet have you ever imagined if Jesus asked you to participate in that suffering, what would you choose? Would it be the constant weeping of blood from hands, feet, and/or side? Would it be the pain from the lashings of the Roman soldiers? Perhaps like St. Rita, would it be the agony of the crown? Maybe it would be a shoulder sore from the rubbing of the rough wood and the weight of the cross beam. Our sufferings in daily life cannot be compared to the suffering of Jesus, but we can offer them to Jesus as a share in His. He walks with us no matter what we are going through. When we fully trust in Him we can walk with Him, even in the most painful of circumstances, since it is only through the great Passion and Death that we can celebrate the Resurrection.

What is the cross?

Welcome to Lent! Over the course of the next six or so weeks, Catholics will be focused on fasting, prayer, and almsgiving, including various devotionals to assist their Lenten journey. All paths, however, lead to Good Friday and the cross. But what is the cross?

Countless reflections have been written about the cross over the centuries, and I’m sure many more will follow in the future. However, I think it’s important for each person to examine the various meanings of the cross so that they can be open to Jesus’ guidance when He uses it. One perspective that I find comforting is the cross as the shepherd’s staff. After all, Jesus did call Himself the Good Shepherd, and any good shepherd will have a staff in hand. Most bishops and cardinals carry a shepherd’s crook during liturgical celebrations, illustrating they are the shepherds in Jesus’ name for their geographic area. Typically a shepherd uses a staff for guidance, either of the whole flock or to separate a few sheep from the herd. A staff is gentle enough not to spook the sheep, but strong enough to encourage the most stubborn of sheep to follow the shepherd. When we object and complain about the challenges and trials of life, we are like the ornery sheep who are resisting the guidance of the shepherd. Yet when we lean into Jesus and surrender to His Will, Jesus will guide us through the tribulations (not remove them) and we will be blessed with the fruits and graces the surrender brings to us. 

Perhaps the most obvious is the cross as a device of execution. It cannot be stated more bluntly than its purpose was Jesus’ death. Jesus really and truly died. We cannot have the resurrection of Easter without the death on Good Friday. All four Gospels are in agreement with that fact, as well as many of the letters in the New Testament. Skeptics, under the heresy of Docetism, doubted that Jesus had a real body and could die, but the early Church condemned this perspective, and does so every time this surfaces as an objection to the Church’s teaching. 

Another way of looking at the cross is as the tree of life. While this might seem the exact opposite of an execution device, it is through the death of Jesus that we can have eternal life. The fruit of the cross is dying to one’s desires so that we can do God’s Will instead of our will. Another fruit is the life of the Church and all the sacraments that sustain us during our earthly pilgrimage. We are baptized with the sign of the cross and are sealed with the oil of chrism in that same way in confirmation. In confession we are absolved through that sign and the form of a cross is used during the anointing of the sick. Our entire spiritual life revolves around the cross, not because it is a sign of death, but because it allows us to be saved and enter eternity with God.

Lastly, one can consider the cross the throne of Jesus. Because Jesus accepted His Passion and Death, the cross became His throne, His way of bringing the Kingdom of God to earth. His throne served as a bridge between physical life on earth and the spiritual realm. As beings with both bodies and souls, living with a focus just on the physical life is like only living half a life. To be fully alive is to embrace both the physical world as well as the spiritual. Through Jesus, we have access to God and the spiritual realm. On this throne, Jesus dispenses forgiveness and mercy, both to the thief who acknowledges his sinfulness as well as those actively persecuting Jesus in their stubborn ignorance. Jesus bestows blessings and graces by giving His Mother to be a Mother to us all. 

The cross is many things. As we progress through Lent this year, let us pause and remember both the tragedy and beauty of the simple intersection of two pieces of wood that Jesus used to transform the world in every age. May we be humbled by its power and rejoice in the fruitfulness of its blessings. 

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Reflections of light

As Christians, we are called to reflect the light of Christ in the world around us. How many of us, in order to not make waves in society, instead put our light under the “bushel basket?”

In the past few months, light reflections have been something I’ve noticed on a daily basis. After my cat Vera passed last spring, I adopted a female cat, Victoria, and then about two months later a male kitten, Marley. Everything is new to Marley and his most recent discovery is light reflections, be that from a car door that opens in the parking area outside the house, or when my phone reflects the light from a nearby lamp. It’s cute until he tries jumping up the wall trying to capture it. While Victoria seems to watch with a bit of disdain for a useless cause, I admire his persistence and his focus. I’m starting to wonder if I have those same qualities when it comes to living my faith. He can sit and watch the wall for an hour, chatting as if to encourage the return of whatever caused the light beam to show itself. Do I make use of the opportunities to grow in my faith, to spend time in silent prayer with an open heart ready to receive God’s guidance for me? 

In Marley’s youthful inexperience, he allows his focus on the light beam to direct his moves, even when there could be negative consequences. I’ve started avoiding using my phone at night, as that seems to cast the reflected light on the ceiling, and Marley is trying to figure out the best way to reach it. While the cat tree is tensioned to the ceiling, it’s thankfully not in the area where the light is reflected. Yet Marley climbs to the top of the tension pole to the ceiling as if getting to the same height will allow him to capture his prize. Do I put my focus on Jesus to lead the way? Or do I look at what’s going on in my surroundings and doubt what can be achieved? God created us with a soul for faith and a mind for reason, and we should be using both equally to do God’s will. 

Marley has also noticed when shadows disrupt light. These too he has gone after, trying to capture the dark spot on the wall. How often are we tempted to chase the shadows? They are a curiosity and we often try to capture them not because we want them, but because they are different and we want to know more about them. But shadows are not from God and will lead us away from our purpose. While it’s important to notice the shadows in our lives, it’s best to seek God’s counsel as to how to address them so they will not be a temptation for us. 

Our modern society allows us to illuminate night as if it were daytime. Artificial light can be a blessing, especially on short, winter days. Yet there are many artificial lights that compete for our attention, so that we forget our relationship with Jesus and pursue lights that dazzle our eyes and quickly fade. They leave us empty and searching for peace. Jesus is the Light of the world and His Word is a lamp for our feet. When we seek to follow Him, He will guide our steps, even when the way gets rough and challenging.

Next week begins the Lenten season. Perhaps a practice for this year could be to seek out opportunities to let Christ’s light shine through your life.  

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Be a witness

Christians are called to mirror Christ in their lives, so that by their word, deed, and even their being, others can see Christ in them. One of the ways to describe this is: witness. What does it mean to be a witness of Christ? 

According to Merriam-Webster, witness is both a noun and a verb, and has several meanings for each type. Many times we think of a witness as who we are but not what we do as Christians, yet it is both. Before we can take action as a witness, we first need to be one. One of the many definitions of the word is one who has personal knowledge of something. As Catholics, we are called to the most intimate relationship with God through the Eucharist. At Mass and through praying and reading Scripture, we come to have a personal relationship with Jesus, unique to each one of us, where we are in whatever state of life we are in. We cannot be Christ’s hands and feet on earth, if we don’t know Him and what He calls us to do. A relationship is not a once-and-done thing we obtain, but rather a continuous process of seeking to know Jesus ever deeper in all of life’s circumstances. 

Often Catholics shy away from the term evangelize, because it sounds too forceful, they feel they lack enough knowledge, or public speaking fills them with dread. However evangelizing and witness share a common bond. One of the definitions of witness is one who gives evidence. While some may think of standing on street corners and trying to convince people to go to church as evangelization, it’s not the only method. When we share our personal experience of how Jesus has worked in our lives, that is being a witness to Christ and evangelizing to others. Evangelization is not meant to tell people what to do, but rather to invite them to have similar experiences by welcoming Jesus into their lives. Being a witness requires us to open up and share our experiences rather than to keep them for ourselves and our memories. Sharing as a witness to Christ working in our lives doesn’t need to be flashy or extreme, it just needs to be honest and personal. 

While many people can cross our paths throughout a day in our life, we won’t be able to talk to each person who sees us about Jesus. Our actions play an equal role in being a witness that Jesus lives in us and we are trying to reflect Him to the world. The Commandments, the Beatitudes, and the Corporal and Spiritual works of mercy all exemplify a Christ-centric spirit, even if we do not say a word to another. Instead of seeking to please ourselves, our focus is doing God’s will and sharing His blessings with others. In that way, a witness is not just what we are but rather what we do. 

When we witness to our faith and hope in God, we are making tangible the proof of a living God. We do not ask others to accept God because of the blessings He has provided to us, but rather to seek a relationship with Him so that they, too, can become a witness and share the unique wonders God has worked in their lives. 

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Lord and Savior

Most Christians, regardless of denomination, will agree that in order to be called a Christian, you must first accept Jesus as Lord and Savior. But what does this mean and how does one do so?

The question of who Jesus is goes way back, all the way to the time of Jesus, Himself. To some, He was a miracle worker, healing those brought to Him. To others, He was the greatest teacher of all time, “for He taught them as one having authority, and not as their scribes.” (Matt 7:29) But to His closest disciples, He was more than a teacher, or healer, or even a prophet. He was the Anointed One, the Messiah; the Son of the Living God. Peter proclaims this on behalf of the Apostles in Matthew 16:16 and in John’s bread of life discourse, when others fall away because they find it too hard to believe in eating His flesh, Peter remarks that there is no place else to go, since Jesus has the words of eternal life. (John 6:68) As the early Church grew, it had to face heresies like Docetism, which claimed that Jesus was not fully human, only divine, and on the other side of the scale, Arianism, which taught that Jesus was created and not fully divine.

After 2,000 years, we can see not only the full story of Jesus but all the miraculous wonders it brought about since His time on earth. While I would like to say I would have believed in Jesus if I lived at the same time as He did, it’s impossible to know what choices I would have made. I’m grateful that I’m in the time and place I am and that I can lean on the Church and her history to have the wisdom to believe Jesus is the Son of God. Yet there is not just one title that fits Jesus in all that He is and does. One may argue that as Jesus is God, that should be sufficient, yet it lacks the acknowledgement that He took on flesh and lived on earth, not to mention His Passion, Death, and Resurrection. Even in the Nicene Creed that we reaffirm weekly at Mass, it’s not just a few titles that we use to describe what we believe about Jesus, but rather detailed aspects of His life and being, many of those included to combat heresies that seem to be cyclical in their appearance.

I’ve heard our modern times labeled as post-Christian. While secularism does seem the most popular way people live, there is often an appreciation for Jesus as a teacher or prophet. Yet this boils down Jesus to a nice guy who did good things. Perhaps that is a necessary step to having a belief in Jesus, but it does not go far enough. To make Jesus our Lord means that we put His teachings first, not picking and choosing which teachings we want to follow, but reorder our own desires to align with Jesus and His commandments and beatitudes. In a culture that demands to put ourselves as the most important consideration, Christianity is contrary in that we put self last, so that God and neighbor come first.

When we claim Jesus as our Savior, we acknowledge that we are sinners and need to be saved. The whole point of Jesus becoming human was to offer Himself, the only pure human, for the remission of sins against God. He had to be God in order to align the events of the Last Supper, the Crucifixion, and the Resurrection together. Jesus had to be human because it was for humanity that he took upon Himself the actions necessary for our redemption and to bridge the gap between humanity and the divine.

Each time we celebrate Mass, the sacraments, and pray, we are acknowledging Jesus as Lord. When we allow Jesus to rule in our homes, our hearts, our lives, and our choices, we honor Jesus as Lord. When we prepare and receive the sacraments of reconciliation and the eucharist, we are seeking Jesus as our Savior, the only one who can take away our sins and make us new. Accepting Jesus as our Lord and Savior is not just an intellectual thought, it is a belief that changes us to become the best version of ourselves because we follow where He leads.

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Savoring the season

Merry Christmas! I realize that December 25 was last week, however, I don’t want Christmas to end just yet. And as a Catholic, I get to enjoy Christmas the whole season long!

A few days ago, I was watching a video blog on YouTube about different types of cruises. The woman said one of the many cruises she took was over Christmas, and while it was lovely, she was rather frustrated that Christmas music played the entire cruise, even after Christmas day itself. She indicated December 27 was her limit for playing the seasonal music until the following November. Ah! That’s the issue, I thought to myself. You start way too early! It’s no wonder you’re ready to move on, because you’ve started indulging in the holiday before preparing for it, so that when the actual time for celebration comes, you’re all celebrated out. This is why the liturgical calendar of the Catholic Church is so important. Like a mother, it knows that children want to skip straight to celebrating, so in its wisdom, we have the (almost) four weeks of Advent to prepare for Jesus. At Mass, we have songs that remind us to keep hope alive and that a Savior is coming, but is not quite here yet. It reminds us of the entire Old Testament, which saw generation after generation waiting for the Messiah. We can’t fully appreciate the gift God gives us in His Son unless we understand and know what it is like to be without Him and be waiting for Him.

We are still within the octave of Christmas, that is the liturgical celebration of eight days of Christmas as if it was Christmas itself. Traditionally, the timeframe for the Twelve days of Christmas was the time between Christmas and the feast of the Epiphany, which recalls the wise men visiting the Child Jesus. In a time before electric lights and artificial trees, decorations for the holiday were not displayed until Christmas eve, so that the season could be celebrated with the fresh greens. Oh, how I wish we had retained just a little of that sense of restraint! While I do spend time before Christmas baking and listening to Christmas music, I don’t fully engage in celebrating until the holiday is almost upon us. I don’t binge on Christmas movies too early in December but prefer to wait until the week of Christmas and after most of my preparations are completed. After putting in the time and energy to decorate, I want to enjoy the lights, the tree, and the nativity scene. Praying a rosary while gazing on the same infant Jesus in a manger that graced the under-the-tree stable my Dad built for it, is more than just nostalgia, but provides a real sense of connection and continuity of past, present, and future. 

The liturgical celebration of the Christmas season is from Christmas Eve though the feast of the Baptism of Jesus, usually the week following the Sunday solemnity of the Epiphany. While I’ll start to put my decorations away after the Epiphany, that’s to limit the exposure my cats have to them, lest they get too comfortable and begin to think they are toys to be played with. Until then, I want to immerse myself in the holiness of the season. The decorations are not meant to just be festive, but to be meaningful in regards to the season. After experiencing a time of expecting Jesus, we now receive the gift of a Savior. It’s a precious gift to treasure in our daily prayers as well as in our daily activities. We look at the special lights and remember the Light of the World who was born to save us from our sins. We look at the figures of Mary and Joseph kneeling before Jesus nestled in the manger’s hay and remember that God fulfills His promises far more spectacularly than we can ever imagine, but in His own time. Hearing songs like Joy to the World, O Come All Ye Faithful, and Silent Night stir our hearts to both rejoice and find comfort in a God who loves us so much, He became like us. 

While the secular world around us has rushed the season and is moving on to the next celebrations of the Superbowl, Valentine’s Day, and St. Patrick’s Day, let us linger a bit longer in this Christmas season, absorbing all the beauty and graces it can bestow.  

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Glory and peace

“And suddenly there was a multitude of the heavenly host with the angel, praising God and saying: ‘Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.’”
Luke 2:13-14

In those two simple lines from Luke’s Gospel that the angels proclaim to the shepherds is the entire mission of Jesus: glory and peace. These two lines are very familiar. We basically say or sing them whenever the Gloria is used in Mass, which is most Sundays excluding Advent and Lent. They were even included in Linus’s scripture passage he quoted to Charlie Brown in the namesake’s animated Christmas special. Sometimes the passages that are very familiar are the least pondered. Have you ever thought what that proclamation by the entire heavenly host meant? In thinking about it, it seems so obvious that this is such an important message, since the whole choir of angels proclaims it. It’s like it has a heavenly set of exclamation marks at the end of it! 

Jesus’ whole life was lived with and for God the Father. His life on earth is the most perfect example of a life giving glory to God. “Jesus answered and said to them, ‘Amen, amen, I say to you, a son cannot do anything on his own, but only what he sees his father doing; for what he does, his son will do also.’” (John 5:19) Jesus, Himself, tells us that He is a reflection of God the Father and that all His works are works of the Father. As Jesus mirrors God, so we must strive to mirror Him as well. God has been very generous to us, so we, in turn, must share our blessings with others. Even if we lack material goods, our time, our energy, and even our very person can be used to show the love of God to others in need of it. The Blessed Mother did God’s will her whole life and that is why we show her the respect we do. When we pray a Hail Mary, we’re not praying to her, but rather through her and praising God for His most special creation that agreed to be the mother to His Son. When we praise God, we are giving Him the glory for His works. 

While our life objective is first and foremost to give glory to God, the angels’ proclamation assures us that we will be blessed with peace. If we look around the world today, one may begin to doubt, however, God’s peace surpasses any that can be achieved by man. God’s peace is gifted to us based on our response to Him. God would love to flood our souls with peace, but they need to be prepared. First, peace is brought through reconciliation with God. Jesus opened the door of peace through the forgiveness of sins when He was crucified, died, and rose again. He repaired the rift between heaven and earth and became our advocate to God the Father, since Jesus became like us in all ways but sin. 

When we acknowledge our sin — doing our will instead of God’s, we recognize we have a relationship with God. Another way God blesses us with peace is in our relationship to Him. When we seek Him out, return to Him through penance, and participate in the sacraments, we are cultivating a relationship with the Divine. A relationship with God does not demand special favors or only seeks to pray when one is in need. In both good times and troubles we seek to know God and to praise Him regardless of the circumstances. When we are able to rejoice in the moment we are at, we find the peace of God lifting us up. 

God is well aware of human limitations and frailties. He has given us the Commandments and the Beatitudes as the roadmap of how we should measure ourselves. Instead of looking to others and comparing our words, actions, and blessings, we need to weigh ourselves on how well we are living out the word of God. Here again we find the peace of God when our actions align with the instructions God has put forth. The more we act accordingly, the more we will be able to recognize the peace that comes from fulfilling God’s will for us. I sometimes think that when we are having particular trouble in making a decision, when we finally do choose God’s will instead of our own, there seems to be an extra blessing of peace bestowed on us that can almost seem tangible, and  at the very least, recognizable.

During this Christmastide, I do wish you joy as you glorify God for the blessing of His Son, and you are able to recognize the peace of God, which is truly beyond all understanding. (Phil 4:7)

Merry Christmas!

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Ready to receive?

With the fourth Sunday of Advent looming in a few days, that means that Christmas is not far behind. However, the big question is not, “Is all your gift-giving ready?” but rather, “Are you ready to receive?”

The cliché is true: Jesus IS the reason for the season. When we believe this, our preparations include a spiritual aspect in everything we do. Yes, even from baking cookies to decorating the tree, each can include a spiritual element in preparing for December 25. In our holiday gatherings with family, friends, and co-workers, we see a reflection of Jesus in them; that they, too, are children of God. To use another cliché, when we “put Christ in Christmas,” our celebrations are more meaningful and more complete. 

I love singing along to Christmas songs and Joy to the World is my all-time favorite. Yet many times when it comes to singing hymns at Mass on Christmas day, I find myself rather verklempt. I’ve been singing for weeks about the newborn King, and Jesus in the manger, events that have taken place over 2,000 years ago, and when Christmas Day comes, it’s like it’s happening anew. I am awestruck that God would send His Son into our chaotic world, to live like us, and more importantly, to die for us. We can’t have Easter unless we have Christmas. In celebrating Christmas, we are embracing the gift God gave us, at a particular time, in a particular place. We are able to receive God’s gift to us, when we choose to follow His Son and all He taught us, accepting Him as our Lord and Savior.

While Jesus at one time walked the earth, He did ascend into heaven, and as such, is not bound by time or space. Through His Divine nature, Jesus gave us a gift for our lifetime: the Eucharist. While Christmas is technically a holy day of obligation, how can we not but feel obliged to participate in the most Holy Sacrifice of the Mass in remembrance and honor of God’s gift to us? Mass is the highest form of worship we have as Catholics, and Jesus is still giving of Himself even during our worship of Him. He gives us His Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity in Holy Communion so that we can be one with Him, even in our imperfect state of humanity. How incredible it is that we can receive Jesus in a physical form during the celebration of His Incarnation as a physical person?!

While we may be ready to receive Jesus as a baby in Bethlehem and in our present-day Eucharist, it’s the other coming of Jesus that we might not be so ready for. Are we ready to receive Jesus when He comes again? We don’t know when the world will end, or when we will quit this world, but one of these events will happen and we will meet Jesus then. Will we be ready to receive Him? We will look forward to spending eternity with Him? Or will we feel cheated out of our bucket-list of things to accomplish? Are we tied to this physical world and all of its allurements?  We may not be able to answer these questions now, but depending on how much focus we put on Christ during our Christmas preparations and celebrations, we may be able to determine how much we need to adjust to be ready for Jesus to come again.

Christmas is truly a celebration of Jesus yesterday, today, and tomorrow, all rolled up into one very special holy day. In these last few days of Advent, let us reflect on all the ways Jesus comes to us and prepare our hearts, our souls, and our lives to receive Him.

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Gift of acceptance

As we head into week three of Advent, the week of joyful anticipation, let’s turn our focus on Mary and her gift of acceptance.

The second week of Advent held two great feasts for Mary: the Immaculate Conception and Our Lady of Guadalupe. Mary does hold a dear place in the hearts and spirituality of Catholics. We see her guiding presence within the Gospels and even in the Acts of the Apostles. Many times meditations on the Annunciation, when the angel Gabriel came to Mary asking her to be the mother of God, focus on the visit itself and what it must have been like for her. But what if we took another look at a different angle, specifically, her acceptance.

How many times have we had experiences that were drastically different from what we expected? At times like this my family will comment, “that’s not what I signed up for!” At the time of Jesus, the Jews were expecting a much different Messiah than Jesus. They expected Him to rid the land of the Romans and restore the earthly kingdom. If that’s what Mary was expecting, she was definitely mistaken. Perhaps throughout His life, Jesus prepared her for His eventual Passion and Death, but she could not have known what was going to happen when she said yes. Did she know He would be an itinerant preacher? As she is mentioned in the Gospel at the places where Jesus was teaching, perhaps she accompanied Him on His travels. If she was expecting a more militant savior, the travel probably didn’t surprise her, but perhaps the teachings did. 

If we put ourselves in Mary’s place at the time of the Annunciation, what we can expect is her assessing the risk she was taking by saying yes. As a woman who was only betrothed, she faced scandal by her family, her community, and even her future husband, Joseph. She could have been ostracized or worse, by law stoned to death. And she still said yes. While Mary was still quite young, thought to be a teenager, she was still of an age to marry and have children in those times. But even in her short life at the time, she trusted in God, no matter what consequences came from it.  

God asks us to trust Him like Mary did. While He probably won’t send an angel messenger to obtain our agreement, He still wants us to be open to His Will, even during trials and challenges. As the Church acknowledges Mary’s conception free from original sin, we see that God prepared Mary in a very special way for the special role she has in salvation history. God prepares us in a similar way, for each blessing and challenge is built upon our response to the previous opportunities in our lives. Each time we are free to accept God’s will or to choose our own way, and with each decision, we must also accept the consequences that come as a result of our choices. 

Mary’s gift of acceptance to God has become a role model for us all to follow, regardless of the risks or the consequences. When we accept God’s will, there will be many blessings but also many trials, however, He will always be there for us and help us through it. It may not be what we expect for our lives, but if we are truly doing His will, then our expectations are changed from secular, worldly matters, to the goal of reaching heaven and spending eternity with God and with Mary.